I do not want to sound like a teacher here but, I will teach you, how to value your wife, the way you should really value her. Sometimes, men think that, because they are married already, they can do whatever they want and sometimes, this would be misinterpreted by the wife, thus, creating a gap between them which would start fights and arguments.
Occasional bickering is fine but, when you reach the point where you argue everyday and you already hate to come home because you would just fight, that is a no-no.

Here is what every husband must do:

1.    Reminisce
I am sure every women would agree that they would want to reminisce their firsts. First dates, first kiss, first whatever! Treat her out occasionally and be with her from time to time, alone! Of course by alone I mean, no kids, no friends or other family members and most of all, no in laws! Agree, girls?

2.    Pamper
It is just natural for a girl to want to look pretty. Treat her and yourself to a private spa room where you both can relax and smell the scented candle while listening to a relaxing music while being pampered with a masseuse.

3.    Appreciate
If you wife is working or staying at home, appreciate it! It is not an easy job to manage the entire household. If she is working, be thankful and whip up a surprise romantic dinner or breakfast in bed. This would spice up your relationship

Remember, get out of your routinely relationship wherein she cooks breakfast, you go to office, you come home to eat dinner and sleep. That is just plain boring. Here is a short story to ponder upon.

A priest held up a 100 dollar bill and was offering to give it away. Almost everyone raised their hands and wanted to claim it. He then crumpled the hundred dollar bill after offering, hands decreased. The priest, trampled on the bill and for the third time, asked everyone who wanted it. No one raised their hands.

The priest then said, look at what just happened. The bill is just like your wife. She gets old and her looks will change. But whatever happens, you should still love her as she is. Her value doesn’t change like the hundred dollar bill.

That my folks are the ways you should treat your wife.

Life is but a dream that we have to wake up to. To dream is to hope that one day, we will wake up with our dreams coming to life. Wedding, is one of the dreams every girl has ever since a girl was still young playing Barbie dolls with Ken as her husband. In reality, there is no perfect marriage. What you can achieve is near perfect wedding with the right mixture of, preparation, decision making and prayers.

An alternative that you can do to make your dream wedding come to life is to add a unique touch in it. Everyone has surely attended a wedding and most people just enjoy eating or socializing. Here are some suggestions to make your wedding more unique and memorable:

1.    Personalized Tissue
I know what you are thinking right now. This is an additional cost. This is well worth it in my opinion because not everyone has this gimmick on their wedding reception. Besides, it won’t be that expensive. Of course, use elegant colors and it is better if the letterings of your initials are embedded rather than just printed.

2.    Photo guest book
Rather than passing around a guess book that you will hardly look at again, buy a Polaroid camera and as they enter, let someone take their photos and sign their messages at the back of the photo. This way, you can have your  photo album  of guests who attended and this is definitely something you still will look at fifty years after without wondering about the identity of the writer because you cannot comprehend his hand writing!

3.    Live streaming
Since this is the new millennium, I suggest that you get yourself a mobile broadband internet (even if it’s prepaid) and setup a live streaming video of your wedding via the web camera. This way, your friends and family from abroad can still see you at the reception / church even if they are at the opposite side of the world.

Just do not over do the uniqueness or else it will be one of those weird weddings!

Happiness is defined as an emotion associated with feelings ranging from contentment and satisfaction to bliss and intense joy. There are different ways that can make people happy. They can be for different reasons, either tangible or intangible. What will leave most of us in high spirits ? I believe these 3 things are what would make us put on out best smiles, just like when our photographs are being taken.

Making a lot of wealth while doing very small amount of work

Since humans are materialistic, we love buying things and eating in different restaurants. We would beyond doubt need a lot of money to be able to keep up with the lifestyle we want to live. Making a lot of money while doing minimal work would be fun, since I’d have so much time just relaxing and enjoying life spending like there’s no tomorrow.

Good relationships with loved ones

It’s only normal that we have some relationships that we have been burned. Although it is true that we can’t expect to get along with everyone, who wouldn’t want a world where everyone gets along right? I personally would want to get along with everyone if I could! And I would also want to be able to keep all the relationships I’ve made, if possible.

Stable health/Healthy

We have always been scared of finding out that we have some sort of deadly disease. And though we would want to be cured, even me, I would be really terrified to get cured because that entails you to knowing what deadly sickness you have and the worst part? People around you would also know. What I do not want about this is friends throwing sympathy on me. You know what would be nice? We all want to eat and do anything we want without having to worry about getting sick. This would really take away a few of the things I worry about.

As I was listening to my husband relating to me the break-up between Bob and his girlfriend; I began thinking what for me were the worst ways to be left behind.

1. He just disappears. This I think is one of those things that just keep you hanging. It becomes extremely difficult to move on when no closure has happened via some form of explanation why. Fear Kicks in and makes people insecure not knowing if there’s something worng with them.
2. He has a relationship with another woman. That hurts because cheating and lying are involved.
3. Through a friend. Can you believe hearing the bad news from the friend. This is just a piss off as it shows how cowardice the person is. It is also awkward for you as you feel that the whole world knows why you broke up.

Well Bob wants my husband to do #3. What an ass